Woman Creates “Exit Interview” To Find Out Why She Keeps Getting Ghosted
The topic of ghosting is sure to draw out our strongest held opinions. It does not matter whether you are happily married or totally single, it’s a topic that is always going to lead to serious debates.
Shanna, 30, is tired of being ghosted and has gone viral on TikTok over this topic. The video was inspired by a Bumble date that went much better than she assumed. When the man stopped texting her, she decided to show us the exit survey that she came up with.
The survey that she posted included questions including the following:
“Why did you ghost Shanna?”
“What could Shanna do to stop getting ghosted?”
“If you could tell Shanna one thing before she forgets who you are, what would it be?”
In addition to these queries, she also asks the men to rate her personality and her level of attractiveness.
There’s even a follow-up video where she explains her rationale. She had met a man through a dating app and they had “vibed so hard.” They were texting nonstop and had a date scheduled. Before they could actually go out, the communication dried up.
“The last conversation we had was about my work truck, so there it wasn’t like, ‘Oh, red flag, I’m going to stop talking to her,’” Shanna says.
“I had zero intention of getting anything out of this survey, it was just for pure comedy,” she continued. “This was purely to call out the fact that guys don’t have backbones or balls to be like, ‘Hey, you’re not it.’ It’s not that hard. Believe me, I know I am not everyone’s cup of tea.”
Of course, the responses to the questionnaire were mixed. Some were all for it but we are on the opposite side of that conversation. It’s giving desperation from where we are sitting.
In our humble opinion, it is always much easier to assume that the other person is the problem! Check out her survey in the TikTok below:
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